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REASON WHY WE STRUGGLE WITH INSECURITY IS BECOME WE COMPARE OUR BEHIND THE SCENES WITH EVERYONE ELSE’S
HIGHLIGHT REEL. ‘’ STEVEN FERTICK
This quote gives a reality of life. The biggest reason of
insecurity or sadness in today’s generation is inferiority complex. In social
media’s era , people surrounded by reels ,
you tube shorts , fake lifestyle ,internet etc. where they see the
bright side of success people and obsessed with them and suffer with inferiority
. And make their life full of stressed. Truly said by HARVEY SPECTER ”success is like being pregnant , everyone says congratulation but nobody knows how many time you are fucked.” So don’t compare your failure with other’s success.
Comparison can lead to feeling of worthlessness and low self-esteem ,stop us from living in the moment , and lead to competitive and negative mindset. Stop comparing yourself is not self- reflective when you compare yourself your standard is always what other people are doing . Such as sun and moon have no compassion .They just wait for their time .
UNHAPPY CROW
Don’t compare yourself with anyone in life . If you do so , you will be the saddest person in the world. There is a story of an unhappy crow . So there was a crow , the problem with him was that he was black. He was really sad and unhappy in life because of his colour ,So he was crying . So the monk asked the crow — why are you crying? The crow said what to do if not crying . Is it really a life ? that i m living ? Is it really a color ? The black . No one likes black , no one likes me , no one likes a crow as a pet . No one gives me food . I spend most of my the time in the garbage , So i hate my life. The Monk said , what do you want to become ? If you get the another chance . I will make you that thing , I will fulfill your wish . The crow said , If i get another chances , I would like to be a Swan , A white Swan ! what a beautiful color , white is the symbol of peace ! Okay The monk said . But before that I want you to meet the Swan once.
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So, the Crow goes , and meet the swan and said wow brother, what a beautiful color you have , you look amazing , you must be happy in life . The swan said who told you that I am happy . The crow said , are you not ? Not at all ,The swan said . Is it really a color ! white — white is the color of coffin . So you are not happy The crow said. Not at all the swan said.
Now two of them came back to the monk and the swan said , give me another chance , the monk said , what you want to become ? Swan said make me a Parrot , what a red lip , what color combination the parrot has .The monk said , I will make you a parrot but before that I want you to meet a parrot once . Now the crow and swan went to the jungle & find parrot but they can’t find a parrot after a lot of searching , finally they found the parrot and said wow you looking so pretty , what a color combination you have . how happy you are in life . The parrot said , who said you that I am happy . The parrot said my problem is my color the green , it is same as tree , leaf . See you were searching me for long time but you don’t find me because of my color.
So three of them came back to the monk and said Dear monk give me another chance . The monk said what do you want to become ? Parrot said , The peacock what a beautiful bird , what a feather! how beautiful it looks when he dance. Okay the monk said i will make you a peacock . But before that you should meet a peacock at once . So three of them goes to the Peacock and said Wow how pretty you look . You look amazing , people take picture of you . Parrot said how happy you are , how amazing your life is ! Peacock said who told you that I am happy ? Peacock said lots of trouble I have to face . Such as hunting , after hunting every feather extracted from my body and will be sold . People will buy it and use it to decorate their house . Is it really a life ? the peacock said . The crow said , so you are not happy . Not at all the peacock said . The crow said , according to you who who is the happiest animal in the world? . The peacock said you ! The crow . you are the happiest animal in world. No one want to harm you . Does anyone have trouble with you , then who is the happiest animal in the world ! It’s you. The peacock said to the crow because we have no idea , are we going to wake up in the next morning or not! So no matter , who you are , where you are , what you have , how do you look . You are the great . Never ever compare yourself with others . There is no one better than you . You are unique . So , don’t compare yourself with other’s bright thing. If you don’t compare yourself with other’s you are the happiest one in the world.
Do not compare yourself with other’s based on what you see on the outside . You never know what they had to sacrifice to live the life they live now. The only one you should compare to is the person you were yesterday. This will make you a person that you love to be.
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